Supporting Families from Bump to Baby: A Q&A with a Prenatal & Infant Chiropractor in Scottsdale
Pregnancy and newborn life can feel completely overwhelming sometimes.
I remember all the things that needed to be thought about. What to purchase. What to organize before the baby came. And trying to take care of myself for the sake of the baby.
Then your newborn is here. You're wrapped up in this newborn cocoon trying to figure out how to take care of this precious tiny little being. Suddenly there's no time to take care of yourself. Figuring out the best way to care for your baby is all you can think about.
You're trying to make all the right choices while exhausted during pregnancy or the newborn phase. But it's hard to know what the right thing to do is. There are so many places to go for information. Finding trusted practitioners who offer prenatal and infant care in Scottsdale can feel overwhelming.
As a newborn photographer, I get a front-row seat to early parenthood. I'm always hearing the same questions, worries, and uncertainties. That's why I want to spotlight trusted local providers who support families during this season. Because I know it can be hard to find those people, especially when you feel overwhelmed.
Today I'm excited to introduce you to Dr. Ashley DeBoer, a chiropractor who specializes in prenatal and infant care in Scottsdale. She provides gentle chiropractic care during pregnancy, chiropractic care for newborns, and pediatric support to help families feel more confident and comfortable during this transformative time.
This is meant to be a relaxed, informative Q&A to educate and reassure. I'm so grateful she took the time to answer these questions and share her approach in her own words.
Understanding Prenatal and Infant Chiropractic Care in Scottsdale
Can you tell us a little about yourself and what led you to this work?
I'm a chiropractor with advanced training in perinatal and pediatric care, and my work grew out of a very simple realization that families deserve more thoughtful, connected support during one of the most transformative seasons of life. Early on, I noticed how often pregnancy, birth, and the newborn phase were treated as isolated medical events rather than a continuum that deeply affects the nervous system, feeding, bonding, and overall family wellbeing. I was drawn to this work because it allows me to blend clinical precision with relationship-based care, supporting not just bodies, but confidence, regulation, and trust during a season that can feel overwhelming.
How would you describe your role in supporting families during pregnancy or the newborn stage?
My role is to be a steady, grounding presence during a time that's both exciting and vulnerable. Practically, that means supporting the nervous system, movement, and comfort of both parent and baby, while also helping families understand what's happening and why. Emotionally, it means slowing things down and creating space for questions, reassurance, and real understanding. I see my work as collaborative and preventative, helping families feel regulated, informed, and empowered rather than reactive or rushed.
What kind of families do you typically work with?
I work with families who want thoughtful, supportive care during pregnancy and the early newborn stage. Many are first-time parents, though not all, and some come in with specific concerns like feeding challenges, tension, or recovery after a difficult birth, while others are simply looking for proactive care and guidance. What they tend to have in common is that they value care that feels personal, calm, and unrushed, and they want to feel supported rather than pushed through a system.
What to Expect: Common Concerns and Questions
What is something you wish more expecting parents knew before bringing their baby home?
I wish more parents knew that it's normal for the newborn stage to feel disorienting, even when everything is technically "going well." You're learning your baby, your body, and a completely new rhythm all at once, and that takes time. Support doesn't mean something is wrong. It means you're allowing yourself room to adjust, recover, and build confidence without feeling like you have to figure everything out on your own.
What are some of the most common concerns or questions you hear from new parents?
A lot of parents ask if what they're seeing is normal. Feeding struggles, fussiness, sleep, body tension, and their own recovery come up constantly. There's also a lot of self doubt, especially around whether they're doing things "right." Most of the time, parents don't need fixing. They need reassurance, clarity, and someone to help them understand what their baby is communicating.
How does support during the newborn stage make a difference for families?
Support during the newborn stage helps families feel steadier and less reactive. When parents feel supported, they're better able to respond calmly, trust their instincts, and enjoy their baby rather than constantly worrying. Early, thoughtful support can also prevent small issues from becoming bigger ones and helps set the tone for a more confident, connected start for the whole family.
Getting Started with Chiropractic Care for Your Family
When is the best time for parents to reach out to someone like you?
Honestly, sooner than most people think. Reaching out during pregnancy gives families a chance to build a relationship, ask questions, and feel supported before things feel urgent. That said, it's never too late. Whether it's day three at home or a few weeks in, support is helpful at any point and doesn't require things to be "bad" first.
How do parents know if your services are a good fit for them?
If parents are looking for care that feels calm, personalized, and unrushed, it's usually a good fit. My approach is collaborative and centered on understanding what's actually going on rather than jumping straight to fixes. I also offer free consultations, which gives families a chance to ask questions, talk through their concerns, and get a feel for whether the approach feels right for them before committing to anything.
What are a few simple ways parents can prepare for the newborn stage now?
One of the most helpful things parents can do is line up support ahead of time, whether that's care providers, family, or trusted resources. It also helps to let go of the idea that everything has to be perfectly figured out before the baby arrives. Creating space for rest, flexibility, and learning as you go goes a long way in making the newborn stage feel more manageable and less overwhelming.
Real Stories: The Impact of Supportive Care
What's one moment from your work that really stayed with you?
One moment that really stayed with me was working with a week old baby who had been crying almost constantly since delivery and just seemed uncomfortable in their own body. The parents were completely exhausted and running on very little sleep. After the first adjustment, the baby visibly relaxed, and when the parents followed up, they shared that they had a couple of really good nights of sleep for the first time since birth. Seeing that shift, not just in the baby but in the parents' sense of relief, is something I don't forget.
What Support Really Means for New Families in Scottsdale
What does "support" mean to you when it comes to new parents?
Support means having someone walk alongside you without judgment or pressure. It's about listening, explaining, and helping parents feel steadier and more confident in their decisions rather than overwhelmed by information or expectations. True support meets families where they are and adapts as their needs change.
What would you say to a parent who feels like they should be doing everything on their own?
I would tell them that needing support doesn't mean you're failing, it means you're human. No one is meant to navigate pregnancy or the newborn stage in isolation, even if it looks that way from the outside. Allowing yourself to accept help often makes you a calmer, more present parent, which benefits both you and your baby.
Connect with Dr. Ashley DeBoer
Where can parents learn more about you and your services?
Parents can learn more by visiting Reluume at reluume.com, calling or texting 623-219-6087, or visiting the office at 14300 North Northside Blvd., Suite 123, Scottsdale, AZ 85260. They can also follow along on Instagram at @drashleydeboer and @reluume, where I share more about my approach and what care during pregnancy and the newborn stage can look like. I also offer free consultations so families can ask questions and see if it feels like the right fit before getting started.
Why This Conversation Matters
I'm so grateful to Dr. Ashley for sharing her knowledge and approach with us.
Dr. Ashley supported my son after his tongue tie release. I know that her support helped us make it to over two years of successful breastfeeding. Her gentle nature and the support she gave me, even during the short sessions with my son, are something I'll never forget.
What I know is Dr. Ashley is passionate about supporting her patients' nervous systems not just through chiropractic care for newborns and chiropractic care during pregnancy, but also by building trust and relationships to help families build their confidence during an overwhelming time.
Sharing conversations like this matters to me as a photographer and mom because I know how hard it can be to find practitioners you can trust. When families are searching for prenatal and infant care in Scottsdale, they deserve to know who provides thoughtful, supportive care.
For me, it's not just about taking photos. It's about supporting families. Because newborn photo sessions are also about providing care, comfort, a listening ear, and connection.
This is the first in a series featuring local professionals who support growing families. In the coming months, I'll be sharing conversations with doulas, lactation consultants, birth centers, and more. My goal is to help you find the trusted support you deserve during pregnancy and the newborn stage.
If you're expecting and thinking about newborn photos, I'd love to connect and answer any questions. No pressure, just support.
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